One-to-one with John Ooi

A practice shaped around your actual life.

For curious people changing their work, their home, or the way they want to live.

Online, or in person where practicalExplore Space to Be

Time, space, and support for finding a way forward.

Your life may be changing. You may be moving away, changing career, starting a business, or starting university. You may be struggling to find your feet, wondering where you belong, or wanting to meet the people you love differently.

On paper, your life may work. Inside, perhaps you want to meet it with more confidence, kindness, and possibility.

You do not need to arrive with a clear objective. Not knowing what to do next is a perfectly good place to begin.

You also do not need meditation experience. You may already practise, be simply curious, or feel hesitant about meditation. We can begin by exploring what meditation is and why anyone might do it, from first principles, before ever practising.

If you’re starting university:

Starting university can bring questions about belonging, confidence and direction. Our meetings offer time to listen to yourself, recognise your own worth and explore a meditation practice that can help you feel grounded. No meditation experience is needed. We can begin simply by talking.

Six meetings, with room for what is here.

First, a twenty-minute conversation to see if it feels right. If we both want to continue, we begin six weekly meetings.

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A first conversation

We talk about what you are looking for, answer practical questions and decide whether meeting again feels right.

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Weekly meetings

Each meeting responds to what is happening. There is no fixed script to perform.

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Between meetings

We can exchange voice notes and messages. I respond within my capacity and aim to reply promptly.

Meetings change from week to week. We may meditate and talk honestly, and we may explore a practice for daily life. Sometimes I introduce a practice or share an insight or story. Other times I mostly listen.

The sixth meeting continues the work and also leaves room to talk about what might come next. There is no obligation to continue. We may continue, allow time for a decision to become clear, or recognise that the work is complete for now.

A living practice, held in relationship.

Meditation teaching is instructive. Spiritual friendship describes the wider quality of how we meet.

For me, spiritual friendship means good friendship. It tells the truth kindly, with heart, and supports you to be yourself. It is humble in the face of mystery and still willing to enter the details of an actual life.

Some things become clear only in relationship. Another person may see what you cannot yet see, offer a new perspective, practise alongside you, or help create the conditions in which what you already know can reveal itself.

“John has this rare capacity to make you feel at ease, accepted, and guided.”
Laura F, writer and teacher

We can simply try it and see.

Trust is built over time. You do not have to grant it in advance, and I will not try to convert you to a belief or persuade you to continue.

This is not therapy, medical care or crisis support. It may sit alongside work with a doctor or licensed mental health professional. If I believe I am not the right person, or that continuing would be unsafe, I will say so.

I cannot offer expert advice in fields where I have no experience. What I can offer is meditation teaching, close attention, honest conversation and the practices and perspectives I genuinely know.

About John, his training and influences

This work is offered for £125 to £225 per session.

I invite you to choose a rate within this range. The amount you choose does not change the care I offer.

If this is beyond your means, you’re still welcome to reach out. I offer a small number of dāna places.

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See if it feels right.

Write a little about what is happening or what you are looking for. John will read your note personally and reply with a link to choose a time.

Begin with a conversation