Primarily centred on the other person.
The approach is flexible because a life is not a method. I create conditions, pay attention and allow the meeting to take shape from what is actually happening.

I keep the number of people I work with small so I can bring depth and care to each person. I listen closely, respond to what is happening, offer what I can and stay open to what becomes possible.
Meditation can help us notice when we are lost in thought, stuck in an old identity or reactive. From there, it may become possible to enter more direct contact with experience, respond mindfully and act from values and desires that have become clearer.